7 Here’s what I want to say to her — on your behalf

 


You looked at me and said I was “very, very ugly.”

But you didn’t know the battle I was fighting inside.
You didn’t know the diagnosis, the weight loss, the swelling, the anxiety, the medications.
You didn’t see how many times I cried before leaving the house.

You saw me for two seconds.
I’ve been living with this for months… years.

And your words didn’t reflect truth — they reflected your lack of kindness.

I am not your idea of beauty.
I am a person who survived judgment from people like you.

And I forgive myself for ever letting your words define me.



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